Our Staff

Derek was raised in Middletown, Ohio, and graduated in 1992 from Middletown High School and went on to attend Miami University. He moved to Preble County and worked at Hueston Woods State Park until going to work at the Preble County Sheriff’s Office in 1998. He left the Sheriff’s Office in 2008 to attend the Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science. Derek graduated Summa Cum Laude in 2009 from CCMS, earning his Bachelor of Science degree.

After completing his apprenticeship, he became a Licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer and began working for Rogers Funeral Home in New Lebanon for 8 years. In 2016 he and Eshelle purchased the Nein Funeral Home in Camden.  After growing and gaining some experience, they decided to purchase Preble Memory Gardens Funeral Center and Cemetery at the end of December 2020, from Dan and Caralynn Appenzeller. Derek also obtained his Master’s Training Certification to help develop future funeral professionals.

Derek is a member, and Vice President, of the Camden Family Lions Club, a member of the Ohio Funeral Directors Association, National Funeral Directors Association, and Ohio Cemetery Association. Every now and again Derek enjoys a round of golf, casting a line, or whitewater rafting when he has time. He likes to travel, hike, and relax outdoors, but most of all loves to escape to the Smoky Mountains when he can. He is married to his lovely wife, Eshelle, of 21 years.

Together they have raised their beautiful children, and have four sweet grandchildren who are their world. He is proud to call Camden his home.

Eshelle grew up in Camden, Ohio, where she still resides today. She is a 1993 graduate of Preble Shawnee High School. and Montgomery County JVS. After high school and working in the nursing field for four years, she attended the Butler County Peace Officers Training Academy in 1996 and Sinclair’s Corrections Academy in 1997. She worked at the Preble County Sheriff’s Office from 1997 to 2010.

Eshelle married her amazing husband Derek in 2002. If you know her, you know she loves kids. They have a beautiful arrangement of children and 4 grandchildren that they adore.

Working hard managing two Funeral Homes and the Cemetery, she oversees the day-to-day operations, burials, and staff. Around the community, you will find her sitting on multiple boards, serving on committees, and volunteering in any way possible. She is the Director of the Little Shoppe of Sharing located in Camden at the Dover, also a Member of the Camden Family Lions Club, where she serves as treasurer, Vice President of The Common Good of Preble County, and a Member of the Ohio Cemetery Association, as well as being a recent Cohort of Leadership Preble County. Managing a busy schedule, Eshelle doesn’t have much downtime, but when she does, she enjoys traveling with her family and going camping.

A Somerville native and 2016 graduate of Talawanda High School, Elissa has an associate degree from Miami University, along with a bachelor’s degree from Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science, and obtained her Certified Celebrant Certificate from The Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science. She graduated CCMS top of her class Summa Cum Laude in 2022. She served her apprenticeship with us, passed her boards with flying colors, and upon completion became a Licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer in 2023. We were happy when she decided to stay with our Funeral Brady Bunch family we have here.

Elissa is an avid animal lover, she enjoys spending time with her family, especially her precious nephews, and hanging out on the family farm in Somerville, Ohio.

When she is able to get away, she enjoys travelling, and loving on her fat cat - named Monkey, or pestering her boyfriend and going on adventures with him. An all-around family-oriented young lady who brings attention to detail and compassion to every family she meets. We couldn’t be more proud of her, and the hard work and initiative she takes to learn every aspect of the funeral home. She makes a wonderful addition to our team, and we love finding her doodles and quirky notes she leaves us around the office.

Stefanie was born and raised right here in New Paris, Preble County, OH. She went to National Trail, where she graduated in 1976, She then attended and graduated from Indiana Business College with an associate degree in Secretarial Administration. Stefanie married her husband, Phil, in 1978, and was blessed with two amazing children, two wonderful bonus kids, and seven awesome grandchildren.

Stefanie worked in her family’s business for 32 years before coming to Preble Memory Gardens in 2012. She currently works part-time maintaining Cemetery records and selling cemetery markers. She is also part of the Greater Impact Ministries in Loveland, Ohio, where she worked toward becoming a Greater Impact Certified Coach, and she is a member of Castine Church. In her free time, Stefanie enjoys selling Tupperware, which she has done since 1991, and tending to the family farm. We are more than thankful to have her experience and heart as we continue to serve our families during their difficult times, along with the cakes she bakes for every staff member’s birthday.

Accounting Manager Diane is the Accounting Manager for both Bales Funeral Home and Preble Memory Gardens Funeral Center and Cemetery. She brings to us over 35 years of experience in the accounting field.  Originally from Frankfort, Kentucky, Diane graduated from Western Hills High School in 1983 and attended Indiana Business

College where she received her associate degree in accounting in 1987. She met and married her husband, Randy, in 1990 at a church revival. Diane and her husband moved to the area in 2017 to be near their two sons and six grandsons. 

They attend Generations Church, where they are on the praise and worship team and are church elders.  Diane also leads the church women’s group in their Operation Christmas Child annual project.   Her favorite hobby is scrapbooking, in fact, she did our Funeral home scrapbook that can be found in our main lobby! 

Diane and her husband enjoy attending live plays, trying new places to eat, and gathering with good friends.   We are more than happy to have her calming presence with us here at the funeral home.

Raised in Camden, Lori has 5 children and 11 grandchildren. When Lori’s not at work, she enjoys spending time with her family.  She also likes to hike, read books, and go on vacations with her family to the Smokey Mountains.  Lori has been working in the Cemetery since 2006. She enjoys her job at the Cemetery as a Cemetery Sexton caring for families during burials. We couldn’t be more pleased with the dedication, care, and hard work she puts in to make sure the cemetery grounds stay neat and tidy, along with her helpfulness in anything else that may arise. Lori can be found during the week if you need assistance locating a loved one’s grave or finding a place for yourself. 

Wes was raised right here in West Alexandria.  He is a 2005 graduate of Twin Valley South High School.  Wes has worked as a Cemetery Sexton at Preble Memory Gardens since 2015.  In his free time, Wes enjoys tinkering on his motorbike, fishing, writing music, and playing his guitar.  Wes has always been in touch with nature and animals, You can often find him rehabilitating raccoons or just simply caring for all animals and reptiles, though he is a bit fond of his dogs. It takes hard work and great care to provide families with a beautifully kept cemetery to come and be at peace with their loved ones, and we couldn’t appreciate Wes more for everything he does for our cemetery. He can be found during the week if you need assistance locating a loved one’s grave or finding a place for yourself.

Bryan started working for R.C. Nein & Sons Funeral Home in October 1999.  He grew up in Camden attending both Preble Shawnee and Eaton City Schools.  Bryan married Shannah McIntosh in October of 1995, and they have 2 children.  He is a social member of both the American Legion Post 377 and VFW Post 1577, in Camden, and a charter member and past Worthy President of FOE 4289 in Gratis.  In his spare time, Bryan enjoys fishing and rooting on his beloved Cincinnati Bengals.  As talented musician, he also plays guitar, piano, bass, and drums, and has played in several bands such as Misty River, Cold Turkey, and Tune Travelers. Bryan is thankful to be of help and comfort to families in their time of sorrow.

Gary was born and raised in Middletown to Charles and Marie Bales, and graduated from Lemon-Monroe High School, Class of 1965.  He served honorably in the U.S. Navy from 1966-1970, and in 1969 was stationed on a LST ship in Vietnam, operating on the Mekong Delta rivers delivering materials and supplies to Navy barrack ships and other Navy locations.  He married Mary Hollister in May of 1966, and she passed away in December of 2021.  Together they raised three boys and enjoyed camping and traveling across the country.  Gary had been employed at Sorg Paper, and other companies in the sales departments.  He and Mary enjoyed going to see musicians from the 1950’s and 1960’s and entertainers play the golden oldies they listened to growing up.  After retirement, Gary spends his time still following the music and helping his oldest son, Derek, at the funeral home.